I was talking to baby J's...

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I was talking to baby J's social worker on the phone and kaleb asked who I was talking to.

When I told him he said, "social workers help kids who don't have family right?"

"Right kaleb, that's some of what they do."

"baby j already has a family. Why do they need to help him?"

hhhmmmmmmm....how DO you explain "the system is screwed up" to a 4 year old?

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It is a very dangerous...

It is a very dangerous situation for one to be crazy and smart. That's what we were up against in court today.
Knowing that she (birthmother) can postpone trial for termination of parental rights by naming a potential father, she went ahead with that idea and asked the court to add two more names to the list of ALREADY three potential fathers! Now the court must publish and seek finding the new possible fathers....moving our trial all the way to SEPTEMBER!!

yes folks by that time baby j who is now ending toddlerhood will be approaching senior hood!!

On a good note visits have been decreased, which is enough good news to hold me over, I guess.

please do me a favor and pray for baby r, 10 months, who is currently in her care. it has been brought out that birth mom is on several opiates, which means this baby is addicted to several opiates, via breast milk.

it upsets me that CPS didn't want to know this information because then they'd have to do something about it.

ok I'm gonna zip it now.

for valentines day i bought...

for valentines day i bought my hubby a new shirt.

i loved it immediately because i had never seen the design, and i thought hubby would like it too...

but he didnt. he pretends he does. but he doesn't. he can't fool me.

i dont know too edgy? not politically correct?

mainlanders: the man at the end of the shirt is King Kamehameha.

as we walked up...

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as we walked up to the Kroc Center facility, my daughter gazed at the GIANT beautiful cross they have on the very top of the building.

Stormie - mom. look. it's the letter T.

Me - No storm. thats the cross that jesus died on.

Stormie - HE DIED?? OH NO.

Me - yes. but dont worry, remember he rose from the dead and went to heaven?

Stormie - OH MY GOSH. he does magic AND he does jesus?

again. i am speechless.